A Weekend That Changed Everything
What started as a routine trip to the ER for stomach pain turned into something I never could’ve imagined: a three-day hospital stay with severe postpartum preeclampsia, dangerously high blood pressure occurring after birth.
I was scared. I was overwhelmed. And I was devastated to be separated from my babies while I focused on stabilizing my health. But in the midst of that chaos, I learned a life-changing lesson: listen to your body, no matter what.
Turning to Tech for Answers
Before heading to the hospital, I did something I’ve come to rely on — I opened ChatGPT and started researching my symptoms. What I found didn’t confirm anything, but it did give me a direction. A possibility. A reason to act on what my instincts were already telling me.
That information gave me the confidence to advocate for myself, even when things didn’t seem urgent on the surface. I trusted my gut — and I’m so grateful I did.
A Feature That Made It All Worth It
After sharing my experience on Instagram, something incredible happened: the What to Expect team reached out and asked to highlight my story for Preeclampsia Awareness Month.
Being featured on their account was more than just a proud moment — it was a full-circle realization that our voices matter. Our stories matter. And sharing them can help someone else recognize their own warning signs before it’s too late.
The Message I’ll Never Stop Sharing
If you’re a new mom, or even a seasoned one, here’s what I want you to know:
You matter.
Your health matters.
Your instincts are powerful — trust them.
We pour so much into our children, sometimes to the point of ignoring our own needs. But our children need us healthy, whole, and here. So when something feels off, speak up. Seek help. Don’t wait.
Why Awareness Matters
Preeclampsia is often talked about during pregnancy, but postpartum preeclampsia is just as real and just as dangerous. Awareness can save lives. Your awareness might save yours — or someone else’s.
Thanks to tools like ChatGPT, platforms like Instagram, and communities that uplift mothers’ voices, we have more ways than ever to learn, connect, and take control of our health.
Final Thoughts
To every mother reading this: You are not alone. I see you. I’ve been there. And I’m here to tell you — trusting your body could be the most important decision you make.
Thank you to What to Expect for amplifying my voice. And thank you to the community of moms who continue to inspire, support, and show up for one another. Let’s keep the conversation going.
